May 9 2020
Happy Birthmothers day to all those who put the needs of your child above the wants of your heart.
It blows my mind that anyone would hate on your decision, or think you’re less of a person for placing your child in the arms of another.
I am here to tell every one of you mommas, that have chosen adoption or are thinking about it, drown out them noises and follow your heart. Yes this decision is heart breaking and that pain will never go away, but you are the only one who knows what is best for your child. I miss my daughter every day, and there isn’t a moment that goes by where I’m not thinking of her. What helps bring a smile to my face and peace with my decision, is being able to see all the love, and joy that she is surrounded by. She is able to travel, learn how to surf, compete in Dance across the state, play any sport she wants. She has a beautiful life with amazing parents that have been able to give her everything and more than I ever could. At the end of the day, that’s all we want for our children is for them to be happy and healthy, and in a stable environment. Don’t listen to any one who is going to make you feel less of a person or mother, you are making this decision for your child, not for yourself and that is the best gift you can ever give your child. If you are a Birth Mom or trying to figure it out, I am here for you if you want to talk or need someone who understands. Much love to all of you❤
To my beautiful and talented Birth Daughter, I love you more than words can say, and I am so proud of you in all that you have overcome and continue to teach the world of love and strength. #birthmother #birthmomstrong #birthmomsupport #BirthMonthCelebrations #love #strength